A survey in 1999 revealed that sexual problems occur in about 43% of women in the United States. Libido or lack of sexual desire is the most common sexual complaint. An occasional transient problem is very common; however if it is persistent, or pain is involved, it is time to seek professional help.
- The etiology of decreased libido is usually multi-factorial involving hormonal health, and relationship component.
- Hormonal testing can be very helpful in evaluation of decreased libido; vitamin, herbal or hormonal supplementation may be indicated.
- Medications including anti-depressants and birth control pills can worsen the sexual difficulties.
- Americans tend to prioritize time and energy to other things and the eroticism needed to maintain a healthy sexual life does not easily fit in to our concept of parents and family.
- The "super mom" runs out of energy and motivation late at night and may be too overwhelmed with multi-tasking to enjoy or create the sexual experience.
- Diminished libido can co-exist with orgasmic issues and vaginal pain; it can be exacerbated by other undiagnosed or untreated health problems including hypo-thyroidism and depression.
- A negative self-image also intensifies lack of libido; self-esteem plummets when comparing oneself to the beautiful erotic American cover girl ad.
Many women suffer in silence- feeling they are alone and to blame- and afraid to that no help is available to them. The truth is that there are many treatment modalities available in an holistic approach to the problem. Each woman is unique and needs individual evaluation to find the blend of therapies that will improve her libido and enhance her sexual life.
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